Skip navigation
Skip navigation
You are using an outdated browser. Please upgrade your browser.


The Effortless Way to Get the Relationship You Want

Learn the natural laws of attraction to effortlessly attain your ultimate relationships

September 2008 – If you’re fed up of broken hearts, ‘no-hopers’ and difficult relationships then The Secret Laws of Attraction – The Effortless Way to Get the Relationship You Want by Talane Miedaner (September 2008, £9.99, McGraw-Hill), provides REAL answers and debunks some myths too! More than a relationship book that simply tells you how to date and where to meet a man, The Secret Laws of Attraction is an invaluable tool for any singleton looking for real love and provides the key to finding love and happiness in all areas of your life.

According to Talane Miedaner, international Personal Coach, those seeking love, for example, don’t need an action plan to find it. Instead, the best way to attract healthy and fulfilling love relationships is to become your very best self and practice extreme self-care. This is how you will become irresistibly attractive to the people, love and opportunities you most desire.

In fact, the more you’re able to meet your own personal and emotional needs and values, the more attractive you’ll be to the types of relationships that will actually support and ulfil you. And, once you learn how to ulfil your top four CORE emotional needs you’ll become instantly more confident and start effortlessly attracting the people, love and opportunities you really want in life.

Using her patented Emotional Index Quiz – 100 questions than can be answered in less than 20 minutes, master coach Talane will help you pinpoint your CORE needs - the natural emotional and personality elements that make up your personal value system. Once you know what is most important to you and what motivates and drives you, you will learn how to orientate your entire life around these values. This is the secret to happiness.

Talane also blasts through those commonly held myths that can prevent you from finding lasting love or emotionally satisfying relationships, and points out if you can’t even articulate your own top four needs, then it is highly unreasonable to expect anyone in your life to know what they are, let alone meet them!

In fact, through her extensive coaching work, Talane has discovered that MOST PEOPLE have no idea what their real needs are!
No wonder most relationships, personal and professional can feel like
hard work sometimes!

Yet knowing your CORE can also help you determine your career path - you can learn to master the secret laws of attraction for whatever you want to attract – wealth, success, job promotion, love – or all of it!

Says Talane: “In reality, it is extremely difficult to be irresistibly attractive if you have unmet emotional needs. It doesn’t matter how much money you have, or how good you look. This may attract people to you initially, but if you haven’t fulfilled your needs, you’ll end up repelling them in the end. "

“We can unconsciously sense these unfulfilled needs a mile away which makes us run in the opposite direction! What people don’t realise is that ALL human beings have needs. It is part of being human. This can repel the people, jobs, opportunities and especially the man or woman you love away from you – the very opposite of irresistible attraction! But if you don’t know what your personal and emotional needs are and don’t know how to ulfil them you can end up appearing ‘needy’. Definitely not attractive or magnetic! People who appear not to be needy are simply much better at asking for exactly what they want and usually have very strong and firm boundaries in place – and they’ll move on quickly if their personal and emotional needs are not met.“

Coupled with checklists and compelling real-life stories, The Secret Laws of Attraction's 7-tiered programme reveals how to stop struggling and how to expand your willingness to have and to ulfil your own emotional needs. It will teach you how to orientate your life around your own core values and passions (once identified through Talane's unique quiz) and how to indulge in healthy self-care. Chapters include: The Secret of Irresistible Attraction; The Eight Myths about Needs; Identify Your Needs; How to Meet the Top Twenty-One Core Needs; Identify your Core Values; Orientate Your Life Around Your Values; Tips for Being Simply Irresistible and The Basic Rules of Dating: The Time Line.

We are naturally attractive when our deepest needs are met and we are irresistible when we are living our core values! Once you learn how to effortlessly attract the opportunities and relationships you want, you’ll have no more desire to do it the hard way!
So why not learn how to structure your life so you too can be irresistibly attractive - Learn the Secret Laws of Attraction!



All publicity enquiries to Sue Blake Media on
0208 979 5220, 07966 538108,
The Secret Laws of Attraction – The Effortless Way to Get the Relationship You Want - September 2008, Price £9.99
ISBN 9780071543750

Available to press:

FREE extracts, author interviews, guest appearances, articles/columns review copies and podcasts &

About the Author

Talane Miedaner is the international best-selling author of Coach Yourself to Success: 101 Tips from a Personal Coach for Reaching Your Goals at Work and in Life, McGraw-Hill, 2000. She is founder of and has gained international prominence as a life coach by guiding hundreds of clients to find wealth, success, and happiness by helping people to restructure their lives to easily attract the opportunities they want. Her company works with executives, public officials, entrepreneurs, and business owners around the world and Talane also leads numerous seminars internationally.

This press release was distributed by ResponseSource Press Release Wire on behalf of Sue Blake Media in the following categories: Men's Interest, Health, Women's Interest & Beauty, for more information visit